I have to honestly tell you that I have never felt so much pressure in writing a blog. I want so much to bring healing to all those hurting, happiness to all those suffering, and hope to all of those who are living in fear.  Yet, I know that in this current climate, no matter what I say someone will be offended. It no longer matters what you are saying or what you are trying to say.  Now it seems all that matters is how your words are interpreted. We no longer live in a world where you are allowed to have your own opinion.  Now you are either for or against something or someone.  It is truly sad. 

I want to start off by saying this is NOT a political blog!  In fact, if you must know, I am actually registered as an Independent!  So if as you are reading this you are assuming it has to do with one side or another then that is 100% on you.  My life’s work has always been about helping people (ALL people) to be the best they can be. I respect everyone’s right to have their opinion.  So let’s move on.

Have you ever gone to a party or event where everyone around you was drunk and you were sober?  That is exactly how I feel.  I feel like everyone is drunk and I am trying to figure out how they all don’t see how ridiculous they are all acting. My heart truly aches every day for all those who are ending friendships and relationships with family members over differences of opinions.  I seriously can not even believe some of the stories clients and friends are sharing with me.  I have said it before, and I will repeat it again, I don’t know when we stopped seeing each other as people, but it needs to stop.  EVERYONE is someone’s mother, father, sister, brother, daughter, son, wife, husband, and on and on.  We have got to get back to seeing each other as part of a whole!  We are ALL connected.  I am just not sure why we are not seeing this.

I told Kyle the other day that I think I finally have it all figured out.  I think I know exactly what is going on!  It is as if there is as if the different dimensions have collided and are now sharing the same space. The problem is each “side” thinks their reality is the right and only one.  If you really want to better understand energy, dimensions, and quantum physics I highly suggest you go watch the movie “What the bleep do we know”.  You should be able to find it on YouTube or just google it.  It is an oldie but goodie!   

I guess the question then is, what the heck do we do now?  I have said time and time again that you can not fight anger with anger and hate with hate.  I am sorry but it never works!  The only thing that we can do right now is MAKE THE CHOICE to stay in the light.  You can not walk around screaming and yelling about love and healing while at the same time attacking each other.  You have got to be the change you want to see.

I love social media (said sarcastically).  When I started my business over 2 decades ago there was NO social media (boy do I miss those days).  I remember watching Facebook for months and months.  I was so against joining it.  However, it quickly became a must-have for all small businesses so I finally gave in. I also remember all the articles I have written over the years about how social media was going to be the thing that would destroy us.  Now here we are.  I especially love the people posting love and peace and then right underneath they post horrible memes (and I mean HORRIBLE) attacking someone.  We need to wake up.  We are all part of the whole!

My advice moving forward (if you would like it).  This has been a very difficult year.  For a while there I honestly didn’t even know if I was going to keep my physical location.  I had to make some really tough decisions.  I had to get quiet and check in with MYSELF to see what was my truth and what felt right for ME.  Notice I said, “what is right for me”.  I acknowledge that what is right for me may not be right for you.  Guess what?  That is okay!  I have chosen to stay in a reality where I have the option to stay in the positive and continue creating my life.  My life is moving on.  I revamped my entire business (more about that soon).  I am continuing to celebrate great things like my daughter’s wedding.  Yes, my beautiful daughter got married in Oct and YES I attended.  For me, fear is NOT an option.  For me, living life is the only option.  So my advice is to check in with yourself.  See and feel what is right for you.  You don’t need to explain it or justify it.  You get to choose!  Just know that I am here to support you no matter what you choose!

We have a few more weeks of just really crazy times ahead.  I continue looking for ways to support those of you who live near and far.  I hope you will join me for my weekly Wed Night “Happy Hour with Guided Meditation” you can join us via Zoom or our private Facebook group Spiritquest Live.  Click here for more details.

And finally….it is time to focus on THRIVING and not just surviving!