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I have thought long and hard about what I wanted to say in this month’s blog.  God knows I have so much to say about last year, this year, and everything that has been and is currently unfolding.  However, every time I sat down to do this blog I just kept hearing, “It’s time to stop talking”. 

When people stop listening, it is time to stop talking.  When people stop listening, it is time to stop and redirect our focus back to ourselves.  We need to start focusing on clearing up, cleaning up, creating, manifesting, and finding happiness in your own life. 

So instead of writing some long blog, I decided to keep it short and sweet. 

It’s time to let go of judgment…..

You have no idea how much that child is missing going to school and seeing their friends.

You have no idea how stressed that parent is trying to juggle working (or not working) and now teaching their children at home.

You have no idea how disappointed that child that missed celebrating their birthday or the senior that missed graduation is.

You can’t stand in the shoes or feel the sadness of that bride and groom who had to cancel their wedding.

You have no idea the true fear that a person who is “high” risk is feeling.

You have no idea the sadness in the heart of that business owner who is watching everything they have worked so hard for going down the drain.

You have no idea how lonely that person who just lost their spouse and is now locked away in their home is.

You have no idea how heartbreaking it is for those who couldn’t properly say goodbye to their loved ones who passed.

You have no idea how isolated that person who can’t go get their hair done feels now that the only person they talked to (their hairdresser) they can no longer see.

You have no idea how tired that police officer, firefighter, rescue person is after risking their life day after day.

You have no idea how that health care worker feels being on the front lines day in and day out putting themselves at risk.

You have no idea the level of hopelessness that person that took their life must have felt to take such drastic action!

Rich, poor, black, white, young, old, female, male, republican, democrat, none of it really matters!  At the end of the day NO ONE knows EXACTLY how YOU feel because there is only ONE YOU and you (no matter how wonderful or educated or in touch you think you are), not even you…can truly understand what someone else is going through because YOU are not them.

Instead of judging each other lets….

  • Be kind! 
  • Be loving!
  • Be gentle with each other!
  • Show compassion!  
  • Offer support!

Remember…..we don’t have to agree but we should always respect each other!